Marriage Q&A: Ep. 7 - Creating Your Happy

Information technology's episode vii of the Creating Your Happy series, and it as well but so happens to exist the 2nd marriage Q&A where my married man and I answer the questions that you anonymously submit!

After xviii years, and practically growing up together, nosotros've been through a lot; times that we remember because they were full of joy, and times of struggle and pure grief.

Nosotros're Not Perfect… Quite the Opposite

When information technology comes to marriage, we have a relationship that may look pretty familiar to your matrimony. We argue, we have tough conversations, and and so a few weeks later we may exist posting photos on our Facebook well-nigh how thankful we are for our spouse and making people throw up in their mouths with a lovey dovey post virtually each other.

Only what we've been hearing from so many of you, is that you desire more and more of our marriage videos where nosotros our share real-life struggles. Luckily my hubby is on lath, and loves sitting in on these videos too, where we can answer your questions and share what'south in our hearts.

Marriage Q&A: Episode vii of Creating Your Happy

This guy, gets me every time with his randomness…

If you lot missed last months wedlock q&a video that we did, you may want to hop over to our YouTube channel to catch that. The feedback that we received was FAR more we ever imagined. This response was by far ane of my favorites that we received. Why? Considering she found that she's not solitary and that she tin can chronicle to something that we shared in that video. Although we may not have provided her with a elementary "fix," solution… I do hear the peace in her message, from knowing that she's not lone.

Viewer Feedback:

See what she said…

Hey Jessica….so I just watched your video and thought it was groovy. You guys answered a question that really gave me a whole new look on my marriage. I'm actually glad Matt said what he did because I've heard the same thing from my married man but sometimes I felt that, information technology was but an alibi that he was using. But hearing another human say it and exist serious most it, kinda changes things.
So thank u both for that. And honestly you were then right nearly everyone thinking that it's non going to happen to them, because I was that person. And honestly, I judged y'all guys too because I thought you had the perfect wedlock and how could THEY answer tough wedlock questions.
Simply what I didn't realize is that everyone struggles with something and I'm truly pitiful for being quick to judge. I guess God was trying to tell me something because your and Matt's reply to the adulterous question is exactly what I needed to hear. Our incident was yrs ago as well, but I notwithstanding struggle on forgetting, I feel that there is e'er a wall at that place, being scared it's going to happen once more…and sometimes I feel like I don't know how to put that wall downwards. Once over again I'm truly lamentable for judging. I call back what you guys are doing is great, considering it has helped me realize something already. Keep up the bang-up piece of work!!

The "Why"

These are the kinds of messages that make my centre become pitter-pat, and help us realize that we need to keep doing this.

Let'south get on with this month'southward marriage q&a, answering three of the questions that you all have submitted. And then, if you lot take an anonymous question that y'all'd like for us to answer, you can submit that hither:

Submit Your Marriage Question Hither

Did we answer any of your questions?

In case you're unable to watch now, hither are the three questions that we tackled in this video:

#1: My husband & I have been married ten years. Nosotros have come to a place in our human relationship where we seem to not similar one another. He won't go to counseling. We accept modest children. Sometimes I experience like I would be happier solitary just I hate the thought of splitting upwards my little family unit. I don't think that either one of u.s. is happy.

#2: How do you keep office hours? Or do you? I really struggle with turning off my encephalon in the evening and notice myself working (even if it'due south just scheduling or responding to social media comments I've gotten on my phone). When I should exist focusing on my family unit and my hubby. The great thing is, I love what I do, only the bad thing is, I could hands permit it have upwardly manner too much of my time and I don't want to lose these years with my kids nor do I wish to sacrifice my marriage upon the chantry of my job. I'd love to hear your thoughts on this.

#3:How do y'all keep the flame going when you have jobs, and two kids?

Submit Your Bearding Questions:

We are already lining upwardly the next questions to answer on our next wedlock Q&A video in the Creating Your Happy series, so get your questions in, and we'll become to all of them in the upcoming videos!

Submit your question here!

We truly do hope that we've helped someone out in that location in some way. Please never hesitate to reach out or if y'all still have whatsoever questions virtually these topics. We'd honey to help if we tin.

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